Plz some1 help me....plz?

alm...... iam in realtionship with a muslim guy...... bec his parents didnt agree...... we temporary aparted...... but stil iam not able to forget him........ i performed salat al istikhara....many times..... with the intention tat i shld get back him if he is good for me.....r else i shld forget him..... but the problem is iam no able to forget him stil nor he didnt come back.... along with dis i recite everyday duas and surah....... iam really very depressed with dis situation........ here i like to put a question iif he is ot good for me..... i might forgotten him rite.... stil my hearts tells tat he is my person..... is it iam rite................ actually iam trying for a job so tat.... i can forget him......bit and come out of the depression.... but al my prayers are failed... neither i didnt get job nor him..... and iam not able to forget him............... plz some1 tel...... what i shld do...... for dis sitution iam totally depressed.... jus inside my home... not able to change...... pls help me.... what else i need to do..... i mean i read 5times namaz....recite many wazefa, surahs duas........ stil wy allah don ave mercy on me....... nearly from past 1yr i ave the same problem.... my doubt is wy allah is not giving tat guy or atleast achance to forget him(job)......??????? pls help