Monday, August 15, 2011
What should I do about this situation?
Here`s the situation. Myself and another woman have been having an affair for over a year now. We both knew what we were doing was wrong but there was something between us that was unreal. Neither of us were happy in our marriage. Basically we both married out of convience. From the moment we met we had a connection that was undeniable. We have more in common with each other than we do our spouses. We have spent several romantic days and evenings together and we get along wonderfully. We are both totally in love with each other and less stressed when we are together. I know having an affair is WRONG and we should not have started it, so I`m looking for honest answers and not someone telling me that. The problem started a few weeks ago. I tell her I love her several times everyday yet she very seldom says it back to me. It`s not that I don`t think she doesn`t it`s just nice to hear it and know. Our work schedules prevent us from seeing each other as much as we would like and the past few weeks whenever we could get together something on her end came up. Three days in a row this happened.I just found out that her husband now knows she is having an affair, and she said he threw her out of the house.I offered to get her a place to live but she never said yes or no. She hasn`t been texting me much lately and when she does its to tell me she is ok. I want very much to be with her, she is my soulmate and she says i am hers. I`ve been thinking about telling her that we can`t be together and she needs to work things out with her husband. Her happiness means so much to me. I want her to be happy and if that happiness doesnt involve me then so be it. She tells me that her husband is verbally abussive to her and at first i didn`t believe her but I`ve heard messages he has left on her voicemail and know he is. I know if she stays with him he will probably be nice and kind to her at first but what about in 6 months or a year. I don`t want her to hurt anymore.My marriage is pretty much over, its been heading downhill before the affair started. I`m extremely confused and need some guidance on what I should do. Any suggestions on what she is feeling or what I should do ??
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